LET me ask you a question -- if you won $1 million, what would you do with it?
You'll probably tell me that you'll buy a house (if you don't already have one) or perhaps you'll pay off your mortgage and you'll possibly be able to clear all your debt.
Of course, you'll have to have a party to celebrate, and you might give a share of your winnings to family and friends.
$1 million won't go too far these days depending on how much debt you have to get rid of and what you want to buy.
But whatever you decide to do -- I'm sure the main focus will be to have fun (at least while the money lasts).
Now, imagine for a moment that you didn't win and you don't have $1 million.
For most of us, that isn't terribly hard to imagine - we're as close to having $1 million in the bank as we are to the moon.
(Although, did you know that in our working lifetimes we earn an average of $4 million each?)
So if we don't have all that money in ready cash, how do we have fun? Sitting here at my desk, I shudder to think what the answers will be.
And I'll bet that you're all thinking that just because I'm a Budget Bitch, I don't believe in fun.
But I do -- enormous loads of it -- and it doesn't have to cost a lot of money either.
For those of you who cannot imagine how to have fun without blowing the budget, and with school holidays just around the corner -- let me help with just a few ideas:
- A picnic in the park doesn't cost much, just some sandwiches and drinks, with perhaps a Frisbee or a bat and ball for amusement;
- A visit to the library -- there are heaps of great things to do there. I'm not going to tell you what they are, go find out for yourself;
- If you can't afford the cheap cinema prices on Tuesdays, hire a DVD and snuggle up on the couch;
- Kite-flying is great on a windy day. You can make them yourself and save even more money;
- Board games are a great investment and a lot of fun;
- Rent toys instead of buying them, or join a toy library;
- Go to the beach -- one of the most wonderfully entertaining places in the world is absolutely free. You can get almost the same buzz from sitting on the bank at Lake Hume;
- Plan a meal, invite your friends over and ask them not only to not only bring some of the ingredients, but ask them to help with the cooking as well. It's a very social activity, and can be loads of fun. (barbecues and salads in summer, one-pot meals in winter); and,
- Organise a hand-me-down party with your friends and set a theme -- kids' clothes, kids' toys, household goods (this is a party-plan with a difference).
See? You don't need $1 million to have a good time.
You don't need very much money at all really and I'm sure that you could come up with at least another 10 good ideas that won't cost a lot of money.
And let's face it, much of the time "having a good time" is just a state of mind.