Faye was one of those worthy souls who, in her time here, truly did make the world a better place.

I imagine that I am only one of several thousand recipients of Faye’s kindness who feels her loss.

I met Faye after I had my second baby 29 years ago.

I was 19, and I recall Faye’s empathy, respect and lack of judgment on my circumstances.

Her respect and advocacy for all mothers have been singular — there has been no-nonsense but always compassion.

I’ve never forgotten a visit to Faye after the birth of my fifth child, when she said: “Darling, when we are sad, we cry” because I was so embarrassed at being a blubbering mess.

Faye told me to realise when it was my turn, and that it was a pity the word “selfish” had gained so many negative connotations when its original meaning was simply “to be with self”.

That, she said, means being able to advocate for one’s own needs because they are at least as important as anybody else’s.

I always felt so much better after talking to Faye, and I have passed her lessons on to many other women since.

When I posted about Faye’s passing on my Facebook wall, other women shared their memories, including those of Faye picking up the washing when they were exhausted new mums.

She was amazing, just a beautiful lady who leaves behind many who remember her with gratitude and affection.

My deepest sympathies to her family. Vale, Faye.

— LOUISE McORMOND-PLUMMER,

Lavington